• RachelRodent@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    2 days ago

    I do have a 31 year old platonic dom as a 20 year old. They are pretty cool and respectful. It is OK to be uncomfortable about age gaps but don’t yuck anybody’s yum and let me have my agency

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      It is OK to be uncomfortable about age gaps but don’t yuck anybody’s yum and let me have my agency

      It’s curious to see people who champion gender affirming care for 20 year olds suddenly get skittish when they find out 20 year olds might do other things with their genitals.

      Like, are you an adult or aren’t you?

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      I have feeling that platonic is not the right word for that unless you genuinely derive nothing sexual from it and just want to be bullied cause you hate yourself or something