• Dharma Curious (he/him)@slrpnk.net
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    20 hours ago

    Honestly, I’m a dude, and way closer to the girl stereotype here. An argument is one thing, a debate, whatever. But if it’s gotten to the point of what is consider a fight, it’s probably kaput for the relationship, tbh. But that may just be me having a stronger definition of fight, perhaps?

    • remotelove@lemmy.ca
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      5 hours ago

      People get mad and say things they don’t mean. Many couples will get to the point of yelling and screaming at some point if they are together for a number of years. (Some people may never fight, and good on 'em!)

      A fight isn’t the issue: It a person’s willingness to forgive and forget is what should be measured. That, and a person’s ability to be remorseful is extremely important here as well.

      • razen@lemmy.world
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        5 hours ago

        Yeah I don’t see how people living together and spending of their time together will never get into fight.