I want to be the kind of person who can fight and not care. But I care.
And if someone is hurling insults at me or gets vicious, I feel like they’ve spoken their truth and I just can’t be there friend ever again.
Doesn’t work in dealing with narcissistic people. I cannot burn myself to keep them warm.
Most of the times, I am the bad guy and should reflect. But not always.
I want to be the kind of person who can fight and not care. But I care. And if someone is hurling insults at me or gets vicious, I feel like they’ve spoken their truth and I just can’t be there friend ever again.
The secret is to blame yourself for every fight.
Yeah, of course they insulted me. I deserve it.
Doesn’t work in dealing with narcissistic people. I cannot burn myself to keep them warm. Most of the times, I am the bad guy and should reflect. But not always.