go away. you are a weirdo if you are reading this.

  • 0 Posts
  • 14 Comments
Joined 3 years ago
cake
Cake day: February 23rd, 2024

help-circle




  • the problem is people projecting their current self onto their past self. and being like ‘well i was stupid at 22’

    yeah and when you are 60 you will think you were stupid at 40. that’s how life should work.

    but you don’t get to generalize that for others. there are people who at 22 are vastly more matured and full of life experience than people in their 60s, because it’s mostly a matter of what you have been exposed to and things you have dealt with. Some folks like sheltered lives, others not so much.

    I am in my 40s and I’m shocked how many 35+ year old adults are more sheltered and naive about life and relationships than I was at like 20.









  • No, he was mentally ill. He just blamed women, and men, not liking him for the root of his illness, rather than realizing it was his illness that was the problem.

    the problem with mental illness is people who are mentally ill often have a misconception of causality of their problems. they blame other folks for what is mostly going on inside themselves.