• velma@sh.itjust.works
      link
      fedilink
      arrow-up
      13
      arrow-down
      3
      ·
      3 days ago

      4 year olds should be taught to not hit others. And especially to not hit others because it’ll restore their pride and self esteem. It’s very simple.

        • velma@sh.itjust.works
          link
          fedilink
          arrow-up
          10
          arrow-down
          4
          ·
          3 days ago

          Unfortunately if someone is hitting you, or mentally bullying you violence is the only thing they are going to understand.

          They’re four years old.

          • RudeDuner@lemmy.world
            link
            fedilink
            arrow-up
            4
            arrow-down
            2
            ·
            3 days ago

            Exactly. They understand getting smacked by the kid they are bullying makes the bullying less fun than it used to be. Surely you can understand what a four year old can?

            • velma@sh.itjust.works
              link
              fedilink
              arrow-up
              4
              arrow-down
              3
              ·
              3 days ago

              And the other child learns that violence gets them what they want.

              That you think this is a good lesson for children is bewildering.

              • plantfanatic@sh.itjust.works
                link
                fedilink
                arrow-up
                3
                arrow-down
                1
                ·
                3 days ago

                Kids know the difference between right and wrong, and self defence is not violence.

                They literally play games that involve cops and robbers, super heroes and villains, and you want to say they wouldn’t understand the difference between violence and self defence? They already understand quite well that playing isn’t violence. Why do you think self defence is this impossible step?

                You’re teaching them to stand up for themselves, not to go out and be bullies, why are you assuming and loudly claiming that’s the only outcome?