• eestileib@sh.itjust.works
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    9 days ago

    It took me a while to really accept that ppl just offer to fuck you based on a few pics and a couple of paragraphs of text, but it really happens.

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      9 days ago

      it’s better to just get it out of the way rather than have long tormented pretend social activity when two people are literally just horny

      …and if there was someone you thought was hot and you wanted to fuck them, do you want to fuck it up by having a weird disagreement about whether it’s worthwhile for SpaceX to go to Mars or some shit?

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        9 days ago

        I’m less visually driven at this point, so I need to smell someone and see how they move before I know whether I want to fuck them.

        Sometimes they just have a way with words, but for the most part I want to have a quick meetup somewhere in public to see whether they feel safe.

        If they’re not willing to be seen in public with me, they don’t get to fuck me.