Out of the women I’ve dated, fully half of them were violent towards me. I’ve been slapped, punched, whatever you call the gesture of swinging your hand with a hammer, like banging on a door, scratched, bitten, kicked, had food spat in my face, I’ve been hit with blunt objects and had things thrown at me.
The most violent thing I’ve ever done to a woman was hold her down. I pinned her hands to the back of the couch to make her stop hitting me.
I’ve got no patience at all for any whining about how it’s not fair I’m strong enough to rearrange her face but she’s not strong enough to rearrange mine. I’ve been hit enough and if I’m hit again I’m hitting back.
Explain to a very angry drunk person that swinging on someone is a bad idea. Get back to me when that works.
Yes no fukin duh ideally no one would swing in the first place. Unfortunately not everyone is sober and of sound and ration mind. With no mental or behavioral issues that could impede their ability to make that call before they do something stupid.
I would love this to be a fairy tale wonderland where everyone gets alone and no one has cause or reason be it rational or irrational to harm another.
But we don’t. So we can only live be the hope that those of us who are rational don’t go over board, and those who arnt don’t get fucked over by one bad decision.
Lol. Yep. Equal rights are equal rights - this makes women as punchable as men.
Which doesn’t say much because we kinda shouldn’t punch people without reason anyway.
Based on domestic violence rates women are way more punchable than men…
Theory vs. practice, unfortunately
Out of the women I’ve dated, fully half of them were violent towards me. I’ve been slapped, punched, whatever you call the gesture of swinging your hand with a hammer, like banging on a door, scratched, bitten, kicked, had food spat in my face, I’ve been hit with blunt objects and had things thrown at me.
The most violent thing I’ve ever done to a woman was hold her down. I pinned her hands to the back of the couch to make her stop hitting me.
I’ve got no patience at all for any whining about how it’s not fair I’m strong enough to rearrange her face but she’s not strong enough to rearrange mine. I’ve been hit enough and if I’m hit again I’m hitting back.
If you swing on someone expect for them to swing back.
You hope that they’ll be reasonable and proportion the violence in return in equal measures to what you delivered.
Sometimes you hit the guy with PTSD he flips out in absolutely rocks. Your s*** though.
This is why you don’t hit people. You don’t know what they’re going to do. Humans are animals and sometimes they have issues.
It’s a reason to not hit people I suppose, but it really shouldn’t be the reason. Like just don’t resort to violence because violence is bad?
Explain to a very angry drunk person that swinging on someone is a bad idea. Get back to me when that works.
Yes no fukin duh ideally no one would swing in the first place. Unfortunately not everyone is sober and of sound and ration mind. With no mental or behavioral issues that could impede their ability to make that call before they do something stupid.
I would love this to be a fairy tale wonderland where everyone gets alone and no one has cause or reason be it rational or irrational to harm another.
But we don’t. So we can only live be the hope that those of us who are rational don’t go over board, and those who arnt don’t get fucked over by one bad decision.
…or you don’t hit people because, generally, why would you?
Why would you not? Ppl are annoying?
I have to remind myself daily that it’s illegal to stab people even if they are insanely stupid.
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