My interpretation is that it’s not really a political thing, it really was just a genderbent fanart that got wildly viral due to random internet reasons.

The name does derive from incel terminology, but I think that name was chosen mainly because it’s an awesome pun rather than for political reasons.

Nevertheless, as with all things internet, the degenerates made it political. And I assume the name probably didn’t help either.

My interpretation? Anyone saying that it’s political is just retroactively rationalizing someone’s fetish and/or fanart. I don’t see any way that either the left or the right can make a reasonable argument that it “stands for” anything other than quirky internet meme

There is no karma here. Don’t worry too much about being downvoted every now and then.

Also, I like sorting by scaled. It’s like sorting by hot, except it pushes smaller, niche communities up. Which is great if you don’t want your feed to just be news articles.

This person’s advice is comprehensive and correct. You need to accept it. What you’re feeling is not love. Love is something that is built up over years of being in a relationship. No relationship, no love. If what you’re feeling is as strong as you claim, then the correct word would be infatuation, or possibly obsession.

You’re going to come off as extremely creepy to her. Let it go.