Yes, I meant your replies in this thread. I have no idea what your post history is and no desire or reason to look it up.

I assume you have already looked it up after writing that; I would have a temptation. I want to clarify that the post about solar inclination-based geolocation where you were also present was a part of a separate thought process going on for a few days and it being posted close in time was just a coincidence.

Just the way you are replying to everything and being overly analytical on everything. You seem to be trying to attack this problem like a programmer who is programming something. Dude, real life ain’t like that.

I thought “incels” (in modern degradatory definition) were supposed to be emotional guys who hate women because they don’t have feelings they want. Not people who approach dating rationally and try to estimate each other’s feelings using best scientific methods available. Never heard Sheldon Cooper, or Data from TNG being called this way.

BTW, I think you said you read just the post to her before getting this reaction, you never said anything about the comments.

How much dating experience do you have?

None, and I was never accused in being improper in trying to get into one—because I approach the subject rationally. I would never approach anyone in that way until I’m reasonably confident they are interested in me in a sufficient degree. Finding the most compatible person may be a lifetime-long quest, but it pays off at the end.

And for the love of everything holy and unholy, stop doing awkward shit like this! Your post is cringe enough, but hey, at least you are thinking before you do it. But your posts, are making me think you haven’t changed at all.

You mean comments?

Changed compared to what anchor point?

I read your post out to my gf just now, and she rolled her eyes and said, “Oh god, one of those guys. Is he an incel?” Then laughed.

May I ask what exact part of my post lead to her suspecting I was one (apparently in modern definition)?

Attraction /= love. You did not love her.

I am pretty much sure my feelings fell under most common definitions of “love”. I wonder what makes you think otherwise.

You have a desire to have your attraction to her validated.

Maybe that is a part of it, but I also want for her to be validated. I, for instance, would be if someone told me this.

Don’t insert yourself into her life, or any woman’s life for that matter, just so you can wag your attraction to her in her face.

From the tone of your post, I feel like you had a pretty bad day. I’m sorry for whatever happened to you, get better soon.